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Top 10 Reasons Black Women Are Not Marrying Black Men

Purpose:  Thinking about reasons why black couples are not seeing eye to eye.

• If you read this and you start thinking, learn about yourself and the world you live in. 
• If you read this and you learn something, become a better partner with what you learned. 
• If you read this and you feel exposed, grow from that personal exposure. 
• If you read this and you are indifferent, share it with your friends and talk about it, they may have more to say to help you engage more. 
• If you read this and get mad, consider the where the anger originates from and manage it. 
• If you read this and you think it is pure manure, use manure like plants do and grow instead of blaming the ground for not providing you with nutrients to grow. 

1. Some black women believe some black men are satisfied if they are provided good sex and food. 
2. Some black women want intelligent conversation from black men, but when they meet a man that actually can hold a quality conversation, some insecure black women freeze up because the black man is not a fixer upper.
3. Some black women believe a black man is as good as his credit score. 
4. Some black women demand what they are not capable of and do not care if they can give to black men. 
5. Some black women demand unyielding and strict physical characteristics to find the black man of their dreams. 
6. Some black women don’t know or acknowledge their own faults and shortcomings. 
7. Some black women enter abusive relationships with black men because of their history of abusive in their dark past. 
8. Some black women do not realize the invisible influence of how negative private talk about black men (this includes their male offspring and ex-men) can and will naturally send out negative vibes to potential male partners. 
9. Some black women treat their pastors in actions and thought as if they are worth more than their black male partner. 
10. Some black women have a deep and committed relationship with a heavenly God that meets all their needs, but cannot hear God give them insight about their earthly black male partner’s specific needs and wants – who is made in the same image as a black woman.   So if the black woman is NOT getting insight from God about herself, she cannot share insight from God with her black man either – lack of compassion brews from this.  Judgment of the man soon follows and opens the door for conflict leading to irreconcilable differences.  This type of judgment goes both ways…black men can do the same to women.

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“The Ultimate Measure Of A Man Is Not Where He Stands In Moments Of Comfort, But Where He Stands At Times Of Challenge And Controversy.” 
-Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

 

 

 

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